Discover the vibrant world of adventures and cherished moments that unfold while navigating life with tweens, where each day brings opportunities for joy, imagination, and lasting memories. No stern lectures or overwhelming advice—just genuine tales and enjoyable activities rooted in my own experiences. These heartfelt stories provide valuable insights, meaningful lessons, and engaging activities designed to foster personal growth, strengthen connections, and promote a harmonious lifestyle for both you and your tween. Together, let’s embark on a journey of self-discovery that feels both fun and relatable.
As I step into my forties, fueled by endless coffee and the whirlwind of motherhood, I’m embracing the adventure of raising two soon-to-be tweens—Della (9) and Emma (8). It’s a wild ride, and I know I’m not navigating it alone. Hence, Ina Figures It Out—a space to share stories, tips, and insights on embracing this exciting chapter of life. Watching Della and Emma transition from childhood into the early tween years is equal parts joyful and eye-opening. The shift in our mother-daughter dynamic sparked the idea for this blog, though one thing is clear: their privacy is something I’m committed to protecting along the way.
It’s a thrilling, sometimes messy, season in our house, full of growth, laughter, and new experiences. As they evolve so quickly, I’m constantly reminded of how fleeting these moments are and how vital it is to stay present and love them fiercely every day. I’ve learned that prioritizing mom’s self-care is key to keeping the balance, so on this blog, I plan to also share my journey at 40, focusing on health, home, and the things that bring me joy. Come join me in this journey of making the most of every single day. – Ina
Join me as I share touching stories of motherhood, capturing the essence of raising tween daughters with love.
Explore simple and enjoyable ways to enhance your tween’s everyday wellness.
Find inspiration for creating warm, cozy tween spaces that nurture creativity and comfort for your growing girls.
Explore empowering stories and simple activities that encourage self-discovery and confidence in your tween’s everyday life.
Discover trends and activities that captivate tweens, from fashion to hobbies.
Selecting age-appropriate media and activities for your tween.
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